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End the heartbreak cycle. Create the love you desire.

Are you struggling to find a happy, peaceful relationship?

 

If you recognize these thoughts, it’s likely a common pattern holding your love life back.

 

“I constantly worry if I’m good enough for them.”

•“I can’t stop overanalyzing every message.”

•“I will never get what I really want, so I’ll take what I can get¨

•“I feel like I’m losing myself trying to keep the peace.”

•“I don’t know if I should stay or leave.”

Do you want to find love that makes you feel safe and at ease?

In my years as a psychotherapist and relationship coach, I’ve seen countless women struggle with the same issues.

They desire deep, meaningful connections but find themselves trapped in cycles of anxiety and self-doubt.

The self-doubt leads them to choose the wrong partners or to inadvertently sabotage their relationships.

The good news? These patterns can be rewired.

Don't let anxiety dictate your love life

By working with me, you will get a bespoke, transformative solution tailored specifically to you. Together, we’ll reshape your brain’s pathways, empowering you to think, feel, and act in a way that enables you to be in the secure relationship that you desire.

Isn’t it time you felt relief from the anxiety and doubt that hold you back in love?

It is possible to quiet your anxious thoughts and stop second-guessing yourself in love.

You have the ability to feel safe, connected, and confident — both emotionally and physically.

And if endless talking, analysing, or overthinking hasn’t worked for you, this approach is designed to create real change in a short amount of time.

My approach is different

Quick and effective: No more endless talking — learn a method that actually works.

Simple and doable: Forget long, expensive coaching programmes. This approach teaches you a simple techniques that you can integrate into your life, quickly and effectively.

Backed by neuroscience: These are proven techniques that rewire your brain for calm, confidence, and secure connection.

Real results you can feel: Notice the difference in how you think, feel, and relate in just weeks.

Fits into your life: No added overwhelm — this method is simple, practical, and easy to integrate.

Ready to feel calmer, more confident, and secure in love? Let’s do this!

The Rewire Tool

Together we will create a powerful, personalized tool that rewires your brain so you can think, feel and act differently in relationships.

Sounds impossible? I promise it’s not!

Here’s how it works

What fires together wires together

When we repeat the same habits, when we think and feel the same things over and over, then the same parts of our brains light up and ‘wire together’. We start to work on automatic pilot. Blindly following the same old thoughts and habits as if there were no choice. Ever had that feeling of ‘not again!’? Well, that’s what that is.

But your brain has a superpower! It’s called neuroplasticity. This means that if you begin to think, feel and do something different over and over, those things create new connections in your brain. They fire together to become wired together.

When this happens, you will begin to automatically think and feel these new, more positive, empowering things that provide different results.

You are basically rewiring your hardware (your brain) so that you can rewire your software (your thoughts and feelings and therefore your actions).

The Rewire Tool

Enables you to do just that. Without having to go to therapy, write in a journal, meditate every day or ‘just get your act together’!

By using the tool every morning, which you can do anywhere (including while you’re driving or working out) you change your thoughts and feelings for the rest of the day.

Taking care of your body is important, but taking care of your brain is more important than anything. How you think and feel affects every aspect of your life.

If you are anxious, not sleeping, feeling disconnected, constantly overthinking, it will be impossible to feel happy and satisfied in your relationship or anywhere else.

Do you want to transform your love life, break free from relationship anxiety, and embrace having fulfilling connections?

Is this programme for you?

This programme is for you if

 

•You’re tired of feeling anxious or unsure in your relationships.

•You’ve had enough of ending up with the wrong person.

•You feel like there’s something wrong with you and you’ll never find healthy love.

•You want to stop overthinking and start trusting yourself.

•You’re ready to break free from patterns of self-doubt and insecurity.

•You desire a relationship that feels safe, loving, and fulfilling.

Release relationship stress

Jess Bigogno

BSc. MA, MBSR, psychologist, psychotherapist and women's relationship coach.

I am a psychotherapist and women’s relationship coach. I have a Bachelor degree in Psychology and a Masters degree in Psychotherapy. In recent years I have focused my work on developing tools that combine neuroscience and psychology to provide an alternative to therapy. I've found this work particularly helpful to women experiencing relationship issues. Through these tools, I have been able to empower them to get the relationship that they want without the need for endless coaching or therapy sessions.
´Having worked with thirteen therapists, using the Rewire Tool with Jess is the only thing that has worked.´ Emma 50
If you want to be in a relationship that makes you happy, we should talk.