‘I just keep finding fault and thinking she’s not right for me’
‘I can’t help thinking there might be someone better for me out there’
‘I’d love to meet the right person but it never seems to happen for me’
‘I just need more space and freedom’
‘I can’t decide whether to stay or leave and it’s driving me crazy’
In my fifteen years as a psychotherapist and relationship coach, I’ve listened to countless men share these same stories. They genuinely crave that deep, loving connection with a partner, but their own thoughts and actions keep getting in the way.
The fact is, these thoughts are rarely true. They are just self sabotage. If you truly didn’t want to be in a relationship, you wouldn’t be reading this.
This is all made more difficult by the fact that so many of us are led to believe that if it were right it would feel easy. I know through my experience that this just isn’t true for so many people. Especially for men who quite frankly are often not given the same relationship tools as women.
If you think this could be you, you’re not the only one navigating this journey, and I know exactly how to help you.
Let’s work together to break free from those mental roadblocks so you can have the love and connection you deserve.
By working with me, you will get a bespoke, transformative solution tailored specifically to you. Together, we’ll reshape your brain’s pathways, empowering you to think, feel, and act in a way that enables you to be in the fulfilling relationship that you desire.
Everyone has the capability to feel more loving and connected both physically and emotionally.
If endlessly discussing your feelings doesn’t exactly feel like a thrilling prospect, then this is for you.
Ready to make a change? Let’s do this!
Together we will create a powerful, personalized tool that rewires your brain so you can think, feel and act differently in relationships.
Sounds like sci-fi? I promise it’s not!
Here’s how it works
When we repeat the same habits, when we think and feel the same things over and over, then the same parts of our brains light up and ‘wire together’. We start to work on automatic pilot. Blindly following the same old thoughts and habits as if there were no choice. Ever had that feeling of ‘not again!’? Well, that’s what that is.
But your brain has a superpower! It’s called neuroplasticity. This means that if you begin to think, feel and do something different over and over, those things create new connections in your brain. They fire together to become wired together.
When this happens, you will begin to automatically think and feel these new, more positive, empowering things that provide different results.
You are basically rewiring your hardware (your brain) so that you can rewire your software (your thoughts and feelings and therefore your actions).
Enables you to do just that. Without having to go to therapy, write in a journal, meditate every day or ‘just get your act together’!
By using the tool every morning, which you can do anywhere (including while you’re driving or working out) you change your thoughts and feelings for the rest of the day.
Taking care of your body is important, but taking care of your brain is more important than anything. How you think and feel affects every aspect of your life.
If you are stressed, not sleeping, feeling disconnected, constantly overthinking, it will be impossible to feel happy and satisfied in your relationship or anywhere else.
Do you want to transform your love life, break free from relationship stress, and embrace having fulfilling connections?
Are you tired of constantly doubting your relationship?
Do you have a pattern of always judging your partner?
Are you losing sleep because you are overthinking your relationship issues?
Do you feel stressed about your relationship?
Do you wish you could feel calm, connected and happy in your relationship?
Do you find your judging mind gets in the way of your sex life?
Do you suffer from ‘the grass is always greener’ thoughts?
Do you want to just be able to relax and enjoy being with your partner?´
If this feels like you, then I am here to get you the relief you are longing for and into the relationship that you deserve.
I am a psychotherapist and men’s relationship coach. I have a Bachelor degree in Psychology and a Masters degree in Psychotherapy. In recent years I have focused my work on developing tools that combine neuroscience and psychology to provide an alternative to therapy. I've found this work particularly helpful to men experiencing relationship issues. Through these tools, I have been able to empower them to get the relationship that they want without the need for endless coaching or therapy sessions.
´Having worked with thirteen therapists, using the Rewire Tool with Jess is the only thing that has worked.´ Rob 50, happily married with two children.
If you want to be in a relationship that makes you happy, we should talk.
